Love Advice

Sitting at a table by the restaurant window, my friend asked my opinion about what she thought the message was in our new book, Big Fat Love: The Book of Possibilities. She got the idea that one of the book’s messages was just about being […]

As Valentine’s Day rolls around again, we all have a great opportunity to glimpse new possibilities for more love. For one day, we express love and appreciation in various ways to the important people in our lives. What if these expressions of love were possible

Every time Suzanne thought about her sister, all the anger and resentment she’d felt over the years came to the surface. She’d been hurt over and over and could barely tolerate being in the same room with her. Suzanne knew that it wasn’t healthy for

One of the tricks to making sure you aren’t pushing love away without meaning to is… To make sure you aren’t holding onto thoughts about your partner, yourself and others that would cause you to pull back or hesitate to show up as full of

As Pam sipped her coffee, her thoughts brought her to all the ways she was unlovable. All she’d ever wanted was to be loved, truly loved, and she wondered how she got so far from actually fulfilling that desire. She hadn’t had a “bad” childhood

Marsha knew she needed to have a better attitude toward her husband because she was more often than not angry with him… But she couldn’t seem to find it. The “story” that constantly ran in her head sounded something like this… “He’s a good guy,

Kate used to love everything about Sam and then as the years have gone by… Everything he does seems to irritate her even though she still loves him. –She doesn’t like how loudly he chews his food –She doesn’t like how he’s always late when

If you’re asking yourself this question…. “Is this as good as it gets?” You have a wonderful opportunity in front of you. It may not seem that way and you may be feeling pretty hopeless about your situation… But it is an opportunity for you

Casey was confused. She was about to get married for the second time, wanted this marriage to be successful because her first one certainly wasn’t… But she didn’t know what a happy marriage looked like. Her parents had been married for over 50 years and

One of the biggest disagreements Otto had with a previous partner is when he used the words, “I don’t care” in response to her question. She’d get furious, accusing him of not caring enough to answer her with an opinion. He’d get frustrated because he