For a lot of couples, even though there might be love between them, there’s still an underlying tension or distance that seems to always be there. The fights, arguments and disagreements just seem to erupt out of no where and neither person knows how to …
When you want more from your relationship and your partner, it can be very frustrating to say the least. When your partner isn’t giving you what you want or isn’t acting the way you think he or she should act… There is irritation, anxiety and …
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When it comes to gratitude… We all know that we just feel better and are happier when we can have a grateful attitude toward life but… How to you find gratitude when you’re just not feeling it? The answer is–you can’t. You can’t find, see …
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Here are 3 ways to stop unfair criticism if you’re struggling in your relationship and a story of hope from Susie and Otto Collins…
While we all know that blaming and judging isn’t healthy for relationships, we all do it. When someone doesn’t act the way we think they should or do what we want them to do… We blame and judge–even in our minds. It just seems to …
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Control issues can cripple a relationship. Here are 3 new ways to see control so you can get out of the struggle and move toward love…
One of the biggest stumbling blocks to a happy, healthy relationship is the subtle or not-so-subtle battle for control. Control can be summed up as simply as an attempt to get your needs met. And we make up all the different ways to get our …
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Unspoken expectations can ruin relationships of all kinds–and we all have them. Here’s how one of our coaching clients uncovered hers and created a deeper connection with someone important to her in the process… Judith was wound up in a tangled web of anger and …
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One of the biggest challenges in relationships is always the fact that we’re different from each other–with different beliefs, experiences and ways of doing things. Because of these differences, we can set up expectations of the other people in our lives that make connection, love …
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Years ago, when Susie’s car was new, she merged into traffic on a busy interstate highway and almost ran another car off the road because she wasn’t aware of the car’s blind spot. She learned pretty quickly where the blind spot was and that she …
