3 Ways to Stop Reliving the Past
If you’re struggling to stop reliving the past because you know it’s preventing the love and connection you want, here are 3 ways…
Making Friends With Your Painful Past
As Crystal screamed at her current boyfriend, saying things she didn’t really mean… She knew she needed help working through what she called her “abandonment” issues. Her father had left her mother and her when she was six years old and she had healed the …
How to Stop Being so Insecure
Hi, it’s Susie, writing today and I’ll raise my hand. I feel insecure at times and I’ll bet you do too! But what if insecurity wasn’t as big of a problem as we think? I remember when Otto and I were first together and I …
When You Think You’re Not Enough…
Gail cringed as she escaped into the kitchen when she gave a wrong answer during a trivia game she and her husband were playing with another couple one Saturday night. She felt stupid, always coming in last during these games and she thought she was …
How Doing “Nothing” Can Bring You More Love…
Maybe you’ve been trying all kinds of things to get more love and attention from your partner but are getting nothing but stonewalling, apathy and resistance… Like so many other people, you may think that getting a partner to shift, change and give his or …
4 Ways to Make Boundaries Stick
Claudia was livid. When she discovered her husband hadn’t paid some bills that he said he’d paid, she was so angry she could spit nails. This wasn’t the first time this had happened during their years together and she worried that it wouldn’t be the …
4 Relationship “Rules” Every Couple Should Break
Whether you consider yourself to be a “rule breaker” or not, sometimes you’ve just got to break relationship rules. The fact is that we all live by a set of rules. We may not call them that or even be aware of what these rules …
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Relationship Advice–When to Send Flowers…
A few years ago, we went to a party for our friend John. It was supposed to be John’s “going away” party but it certainly wasn’t your typical going away party. It was much more than that. You see, John wasn’t moving to Florida or …
When you feel like you’re giving and not getting…
If you’re reading this, we’re guessing that you’re interested in having more love, intimacy and connection in a relationship that you may feel is lacking in some way. You may have bought into the idea of just loving your partner more and “being an invitation” …
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Arguing for Your Limitations or Someone Else’s
What if you’re limiting your possibilities for love, happiness and success in life without even knowing it? Whether it’s the conversation going on inside your head or the actual words you speak to someone… It’s arguing for your limitations–and we all do it. Here’s how …