Have you ever gotten so caught up in your thinking, imagining the worst about your partner or a situation, that you spin off in all sorts of directions that pull you away from solving relationship problems? If so, guess what? You’re normal. You see, it’s …
Because we help people clear up relationship challenges and have more loving relationships, we’re sometimes asked about “love languages.” While it is interesting to look into individual preferences and it can be helpful to understand your differences… We have a different take on the subject–something …
“Welcome to the neighborhood!” we said as we met our new neighbors last night and immediately tried to change them because they have two big dogs and no fence… And we thought they should have a fence because we didn’t want the dogs running loose! …
One of the tricks to getting your partner to change is also one of the hardest things to see when you’re in a relationship where you’re really invested and want something better than you’re experiencing right now with that person. The true trick to getting …
Getting Your Partner to Change–What to Do and Not to Do Read More »
If you feel like you give more than you receive in your relationship, read about what Shirley discovered. Shirley felt like she was always the one to go to Pete’s town which was 30 miles away for weekend visits. She was tired of leaving her …
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If you’re reading this, we’re guessing that you’re interested in having more love, intimacy and connection in a relationship that you may feel is lacking in some way. You may have bought into the idea of just loving your partner more and “being an invitation” …
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In the span of just a couple of hours, Susie heard the stories of two women who had been dealing with thorny relationship issues with their partners and didn’t know what to do. One woman said that she had sick kids and she and her husband disagreed …
3 Tips for Handling Thorny Relationship Issues that Build Trust… Read More »
One of the tricks to rebuilding love after broken trust is to find out if there’s still enough love or enough desire to want to rebuild the relationship in a new way. Most of the time when trust has been broken, one or both people …
Have you ever been in a relationship or marriage where things started off great and then one day you wake up and realize that it’s gone stale? You realize that the love is gone (or faded away), the passion is non-existent and you’re living more …
One of the tricks to getting unstuck from a stale relationship is to first recognize where a stale relationship comes from. It’s not the other person. It’s the fact that you’re stuck in a loop of thinking that is seeing the relationship and your connection …
