Relationship Advice

“I don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like but it sure isn’t THIS!” “Jennifer” (not her real name and her story used with permission) shared this with us in one of her coaching sessions. When she did, we just had to blow the whistle […]

I enjoy riding a bicycle. Even though I’ve been riding casually for 70 years, I’ve never been fearful until a couple of weeks ago. It had been 2 years since I’d been on my bike and I thought it was time! I usually feel free

One of the ways to getting your partner to change is also one of the hardest things to see… Especially when it’s a relationship where you’re really invested and want something better than you’re experiencing right now with that person. The best way to get

Julie felt overwhelmed and hopeless that once again she’d fallen into her twenty-something son Jason’s guilt trip and manipulation trap. Several months ago, Jason had quit his job as a server and hadn’t gotten another one yet, preferring to spend his time playing video games.

Being a good girl people-pleaser on the surface had its perks but being a secret rebel was much more fun—until it wasn’t. Growing up, I discovered that in order to be liked and loved in my family, I had to adopt and follow someone’s rules,

The other day, a friend of ours asked us about all the worst case relationship scenarios they were hearing. They wondered if people were still getting married because divorce rates are so high–(One source cites divorce is 50% for first marriages, 67% for second, and

If you want a life and relationship fresh start… One of the most important questions you can ask yourself that will determine your personal happiness in 2026 and beyond is your answer to the question… How would you like your life and relationships to look

One of the secrets to healing the divide in any relationship lies in your willingness to see the other person as “different” instead of the enemy and someone (or some thing) to fight against. The desire to be right, to make someone else wrong and

Ok…The holidays are just around the corner and you’re going to be with family, friends and people who can trigger you big time. You want to enjoy the day, keep your sanity, not say or do something that would ruin everything and *If* you get

What do you do when your relationship differences collide and you’re stuck at an impasse? If there’s one thing that’s been the secret for the two of us keeping our love alive and growing over the years, it’s this… We’ve learned (and are continuing to