When you feel like your partner doesn’t see you as an equal, especially when it comes to money, it can be a huge wedge that separates the two of you. Here’s a question from a reader and our response… “My husband doesn’t see me as an equal. I’m constantly being judged and criticized for things …
17 years ago when they were just newlyweds, Adam might not have even noticed that his wife Sharon was crunching way too loudly on potato chips but on this night (and many other nights recently), this very loud crunching was something he almost couldn’t tolerate. Sharon would feel his anger and judgment at these times …
Tolerance in Relationships–Is it a good or bad thing? Read More »
Here are 3 ways to shift relationship conflict when you think it’s impossible to have peace and love in your relationship…
Relationship struggles can go on for years without resolution. Here’s Joan’s story of how she learned how to let go of the struggle for more peace & love…
When people tell us they have relationship trouble and ask us what’s one thing they can do to get closer, we give them a suggestion that goes something like this… If you want to get closer, one way is to focus on getting on the same team. This seems so obvious but “getting on …
8 Signs of Relationship Trouble and How to Get on the Same Team Read More »
Most people seem to lose the fun in their relationship or marriage after a few months (and in rare cases-just a few years) of being together but some couples… …They don’t ever lose the fun. They seem to continue having fun together, enjoy being with each other and keep the spark and romance going year …
Many marriages get stale after awhile, often from lack of attention and the intention to keep connecting deeper on a regular basis. Lately, we’ve both been thinking about ways that we could experience the gifts of connecting even more than we do already. With that in mind, here’s what Otto said some time ago that …
What we know for sure is that disagreement is normal and natural within a relationship or marriage. It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and NOT what you want to do–but there it is and you have to deal with it. HOW you deal with disagreements and stopping fights before they happen is a large part of …
Today, we’re talking about Valentine’s day and you’ve got an important choice to make about it… Are you going to make it “no big deal” or are you going to use it to your FULL ADVANTAGE to restart the spark or even to deepen the connection between you and your spouse, partner or lover? And …
Will your Valentine’s Day be dull or upsetting or fun and connecting? Read More »
It doesn’t happen in every relationship or marriage, But… There’s an “itch” that attacks many relationships at various points and sometimes (either consciously or consciously) one or both partners feel the urge to “look around” at other people while still in a committed relationship. This “itch” is so strong in some people that it causes …
5 Tips When the “Relationship Itch” Attacks You or Your Partner… Read More »
