Relationship Control Issues: Too Controlling or Being Controlled?
Control issues can cripple a relationship. Here are 3 new ways to see control so you can get out of the struggle and move toward love…
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Resolving Control Dramas in Relationships
One of the tricks to resolving control dramas in relationships is to see “control” as the illusion it really is. Control is completely made up in the minds of the people involved. Here’s the thing… Control dramas in relationships come in all shapes and sizes …
Letting Go of Bad Habits in a Relationship
We all come into relationships with what might be considered “bad” habits from the past and those habits can ruin your relationship. You might have a habit of interrupting other people, making them feel like you don’t care about their ides. You might have a …
3 Tips for Getting Along at the Holidays
If you’re like a lot of people, you’ll find yourself not getting along at the holidays while mixing with family members and others who you may not see eye to eye. If so, you’re not alone! With all the self-induced pressures of all that has …
5 Communication Mistakes That Push Love Away
We all make what we might consider communication mistakes as we go through life and interact with others. It’s just inevitable because we’re all so different and look at the world so differently. As we’ve learned from our own relationships, as well as from our …
One of the Tricks to Loving Through Differences…
One of our favorite songs is a song by the band U2 called “One.” In the song there’s a line that we just love that says this… “We’re all one but were not the same.” When it comes to our relationships, this is sometimes magnified …
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The Trick to Getting Past the Same Arguments…
One of the tricks to getting past the same arguments is to understand that if you’re repeating the same old arguments, you’re simply stuck in a loop of thinking and you’re not willing to consider another possibility for this situation. Sometimes the thing that you’re …
How to Handle Upsets, Triggers and Tricky Situations (with love and grace)
Have you ever been triggered by something that, in reality is no big deal or not even real? We mean triggered, really bothered and upset by something that in the grand scheme of this thing called your life is not important at all…BUT…when you think …
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One of the Tricks to Using the Right Words…
One of the tricks to using the right words with the people in your life is coming from a space of love instead of fear. Okay, so what does that mean and how do you do it? People often use their words unconsciously to argue …
3 Ways to Get on the Same Page with A Partner
As human beings, we all are different and have different wants, needs and desires and when we get together as a couple, somehow we forget that. Most of us think that there shouldn’t be disagreements or “bumps in the road” and if there are, we’re …