As Tom set his briefcase down on the table, he looked up and saw his wife Carla by the kitchen sink preparing their dinner. At that moment, he realized he had a choice. He could go to the kitchen and connect with her by looking in her eyes and telling her he’s happy to see… [Read More]

If you’re honest, you’d probably own up to times in a relationship (any relationship) that could be described as “rocky.” You know–times when you struggle over a particular situation, you have two different points of view and both of you seem to say things that irritate each other. But that passes, you find your equilibrium… [Read More]

In this new video, we share what it means to “love yourself,” how you can love yourself more, what loving your self means and where men and women get it wrong in their attempts to love themselves more of the time. Loving yourself is one of those things we all want to do more of… [Read More]

Loving yourself more of the time can seem “selfish” or even impossible at times. One of the big questions we get from the people who read our blog articles, newsletters and interact with us on Facebook is how to love yourself more… Loving yourself is one of the most normal and natural things you can… [Read More]

What do you do if desire fades either yours or your partner’s? That question is similar to one that a woman asked us awhile ago and not only were we intrigued by her question but her situation seemed similar to the challenges that many people face in their relationships. Because of this, we decided to… [Read More]

If you’ve been in a long term intimate relationship, it’s likely that you’ve been making love together for many years. You may even wonder why you even need to read an article about love making tips but keep reading for some surprises that may just help you re-energize your love connection. You’ve possibly forgotten a… [Read More]

It’s almost hard to believe but Susie’s grandsons are both graduating next month–one from college and one from high school. As we think about both graduation ceremonies and all the students getting their diplomas, we can’t help but apply our insights to relationships and life. In today’s complex world, those diplomas are just the “price… [Read More]

Will you have more love, more passion and more connection with a spouse, partner or lover this coming year than the last one? If so, what has to change? Hi, it’s Susie and Otto wishing you a happy new year and here’s our commitment for 2017… We’re going to do everything we can to help… [Read More]

In another post, we gave you 4 ways that the two of us use to recapture love every single day and we also talked about our program for women “Hypnotize His Heart” and one for men, “Light Her Up.” But somehow the one for men wasn’t what triggered people. There were several women who read… [Read More]

Have you ever been in a relationship or marriage where things started off great and then one day you wake up and realize that things aren’t going so well… You realize that the love is gone (or faded away), the passion is non-existent and you’re living more like roommates than lovers and you want more… The… [Read More]