Love Advice

Awhile ago, a man wrote to us and asked for some tips about how to successfully start a new relationship. As we thought about his question, we remembered how we began our relationship and how dramatically different it was from others we’d been in. We […]

One of the best ways to get a fresh start in anything… Especially falling in love again is to realize that this moment is a new moment. And in order to fall in love again, you do need a fresh start! If that’s not happening,

I was just about to turn 26 years old when one of my attempts at self-love (and to be loving to my wife at the time) turned into the biggest disaster of my life. What happened was, one day our next door neighbor who was

As Otto and I were sitting at the John Glenn Columbus International Airport waiting to board the plane to Denver for a vacation last September, he excitedly told me he’d just signed up for a personal growth workshop called Lamron (“normal” spelled backwards) in Scottsdale,

Valentine’s Day is one day that’s fraught with expectations, celebrations, disappointments and love and has always been that way since we were in grade school exchanging those paper valentines, putting them into decorated boxes. Whether you’re in an intimate relationship or not… This holiday can

One thing we’ve discovered about love, relationships, marriage and how to stay in love is… Great relationships DO NOT happen by accident… In fact, it’s true about not only your relationships, but everything in life… A great “anything” doesn’t happen by accident… Take couples who

Since the new year is just a few days away, it’s pretty normal to think about how you want your life and relationships to be different in the coming year–and maybe make resolutions around them. You might want… *A different job *Better communication with your

One thing I’ve learned about love by being with Susie is… This moment is all we’ve ever got. We are never promised another moment. EVER. When we first got together, one of the things that we had to tackle right from the start was the

Sitting at a table by the restaurant window, my friend asked my opinion about what she thought the message was in our new book, Big Fat Love: The Book of Possibilities. She got the idea that one of the book’s messages was just about being

As Valentine’s Day rolls around again, we all have a great opportunity to glimpse new possibilities for more love. For one day, we express love and appreciation in various ways to the important people in our lives. What if these expressions of love were possible