Marriage Advice

Have you ever gotten so caught up in your thinking, imagining the worst about your partner or a situation, that you spin off in all sorts of directions that pull you away from solving relationship problems? If so, guess what? You’re normal. You see, it’s […]

When you feel like your partner doesn’t see you as an equal, especially when it comes to money, it can be a huge wedge that separates the two of you. Here’s a question from a reader and our response… “My husband doesn’t see me as

When you’re with someone who isn’t all that great with relationships, life can sometimes be a real challenge. You try and try and they just can’t seem to get it. They just can’t seem to figure out how to be a better partner, a better

Ever been so angry and worried about a fearful future that every time you thought about it… It just made you more upset and created a worse situation? This was happening to Patti and she knew it wasn’t healthy for her, her husband or their

Cathy was frustrated with her husband, Paul, often snapping at him over little things… And she was just tired of trying to work on their relationship–by herself. She still loved him after all these years but the intimacy and connection just didn’t seem to be

How do you weather the storms in your relationship? We all have them in one way or another but… What do you do when you’re in the middle of them or they’re so frequent you wonder if your relationship will survive? A few days ago

Every single person on the face of the earth has at one time or another thought the worst about their partner. So many people want to stop thinking the worst in their relationship and yet they continue to do it time and time again. By

One of the tricks to knowing whether you’re ready for a relationship reboot or not is to look at the connection between the reality of what’s going on in your relationship and what you really, really want. Most people make the big mistake of trying

“Welcome to the neighborhood!” we said as we met our new neighbors last night and immediately tried to change them because they have two big dogs and no fence… And we thought they should have a fence because we didn’t want the dogs running loose!

One of the tricks to getting unstuck from a stale relationship is to first recognize where a stale relationship comes from. It’s not the other person. It’s the fact that you’re stuck in a loop of thinking that is seeing the relationship and your connection