Most of us intellectually know that forgiveness is a good thing–that it’s good to not hold onto resentment, pain and hurt from the past. But when it comes to actually “doing” forgiveness and letting go of resentments, we often choose to hold onto the hurt. …
In the span of just a couple of hours, Susie heard the stories of two women who had been dealing with thorny relationship issues with their partners and didn’t know what to do. One woman said that she had sick kids and she and her husband disagreed …
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One of the tricks to rebuilding love after broken trust is to find out if there’s still enough love or enough desire to want to rebuild the relationship in a new way. Most of the time when trust has been broken, one or both people …
Since we’ve been talking about creating a more loving space in your relationships, we thought we’d get specific and give you how being in a loving space can take the struggle out of 3 of life’s big relationship challenges. Here they are… #1 How living …
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In the USA, our government is locked in a shutdown that’s affecting millions with no movement in sight toward an agreement. Both sides are holding fast to what they believe is “right” and while we don’t have a magic wand that will “fix” this current …
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Jared and Holly were at a crossroads in their 5 year marriage. Holly had gotten a call from her daughter’s high school guidance counselor that the 16-year-old had been caught with drugs and had been suspended. It was a crisis for their family but also …
It’s been a year since Connie’s husband Todd had ended an emotional affair with a co-worker but she hadn’t been able to let go of the pain and betrayal. She knew she needed to get her suspicions in check every time he went to work …
Joan and her husband Paul were caught in a dangerous, toxic relationship loop and couldn’t get out of it. Paul had spent a great deal of money without telling Joan and it wasn’t the first time. Over the years, she had become anxious about their …
As Carly sat at the kitchen table staring at her husband Frank with resentment, she wondered how things would ever be right in their marriage again. It had been years since she felt important to Frank because he was either focused on his phone watching …
“I’m still resentful that Don was such a workaholic for so many years, especially when the kids were little!” Carla told us bluntly during one of our coaching conversations with her. Among other things, Carla had been telling us that her 35 year marriage was …
