When you or your partner is stonewalling, what’s REALLY going on and how do you stop it from ruining your relationship? Here’s a question about stonewalling we got awhile ago… “If your partner isn’t into self-help (books, videos, articles) and stonewalls me every time I […]
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Sam did it again! He did what he swore to himself he wouldn’t do. He found himself looking at his phone checking sports scores instead of focusing on his wife Jackie when she was talking about her day. They’d talked about him being more present
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Most people see compromise as a good thing but what if the act of compromising kills love and passion instead? While compromising may be what happens naturally when there’s conflict, it’s how you both see the compromise that decides whether you get closer or pull
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Awhile ago, Otto saw a heated argument unfold that got so crazy that he thought the police were going to have to be called… Here’s what happened and some simple truths that can make your relationships better… Otto watched a store clerk get into a
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Ever been so angry and worried about a fearful future that every time you thought about it… It just made you more upset and created a worse situation? This was happening to Patti and she knew it wasn’t healthy for her, her husband or their
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Stress-free communication can happen in your relationship. Here are 3 ways to begin to create the communication and relationship you want…
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We’ve all heard about the stereotypical marriage midlife crisis during which a person– often a man– makes major life changes. These don’t always seem for the best, either. In the generalized scenario, a man reaches his 40s, 50s or 60’s and feels overwhelmed by a
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When it comes to gratitude… We all know that we just feel better and are happier when we can have a grateful attitude toward life but… How do you find gratitude when you’re just not feeling it? The answer is–you can’t. You can’t find, see
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Claudia was livid. When she discovered her husband hadn’t paid some bills that he said he’d paid, she was so angry she could spit nails. This wasn’t the first time this had happened during their years together and she worried that it wouldn’t be the
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Way too many people want to change communication in their relationships or marriages but they don’t know how. One of the reasons they are stuck is they are playing the WRONG communication game. Most people communicate with each other from their wants, fears, doubts, insecurities
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