Have you or your partner ever used these phrases and then expected the other person to talk about a subject… “You should have. . .” “You could have . . .” “Why didn’t you . . .” “You never (or always)…” and “If only you’d …
How to Stop Blame and Criticism When Your Relationship’s At Stake… Read More »
As Otto left for the home improvement store with measuring tape in hand, I cringed. I thought his idea for how to anchor the banister to the wall leading to the top floor of our home would look like people who didn’t know what they …
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As the paralyzing fear of confrontation built inside her, Paula found herself once again lying to her husband. She knew it was wrong, but couldn’t stop doing what she’d done her whole life with everyone she’d been close to. When she sensed the other person …
When it comes to relationships, if there’s one issue that stands out as a major problem and one that can be changed with a little understanding, it’s this… The way you talk to each other. It’s not only the words you say, but it’s the …
Sometimes and in some situations, it IS uncomfortable opening up about your feelings–to yourself as well as to other people. You may not even want to feel certain feelings–but you do. Whether it’s that you love someone, have fallen out of love with someone, there’s …
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As I’m writing this, in two days I’m turning 60. For some reason, I’ve made it up in my mind that “60” doesn’t mean what a lot of people think 60 means. I’ve been thinking of it as a time of rebirth. A time of …
Bad behavior can of course mean something different for each one of us. And you can experience it from family members, co-workers, friendships or the person behind you in line at the grocery store. It can mean: –Consistently putting dirty dishes in the sink instead …
Bad Behavior in Relationships–How Much Should You Put Up With? Read More »
Monica silently ground her teeth as she once again tried to please everyone in her family and believe that inner voice that shamed her if she didn’t. Her thoughts ran something like this… “I should take dinner to my mom because she’s lonely.” “I should …
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If there’s one thing our coaching clients and workshop attendees wish for almost more than anything else, it’s the answer to THIS question… “How can I get my partner to be more open with me?” Here’s what we’ve learned… When it comes to relationships, one …
Emotional Honesty–Here’s How to Stop Your Partner From Hiding Read More »
Here’s a question for you… How many people do you let see you naked? Chances are, not many. How about emotionally naked? We’re guessing you don’t let many people see you emotionally naked either. Getting “naked” emotionally is when you let down your guard and …
How Much Emotional Honesty or “Nakedness” is TOO Much? Read More »
