To Elizabeth, arguing with her husband Paul seemed to be the only way they communicated and she was tired of it. They never agreed on anything and the house always seemed filled with tension when the two of them were together. They’d even begun picking …
We all have overwhelming emotions from time to time… Joanne couldn’t sleep because every time she felt tired enough to climb into bed, her mind started rolling a mile a minute with worry about how she’s going to care for her aging mom after she …
One of the biggest barriers to more love and possibilities in our lives is how much, how often and how deeply we “numb out” when life overwhelms us and gets to be too much. Most people don’t realize it but we ALL have countless strategies …
Joyce buried her face in her hands, wondering how to stop the constant criticism she heard inside her head. The harsh, loud, critical voice of her inner critic was relentless. For Joyce, like most of us, she has two voices in her head: –The calm, …
Dealing with a critical partner and your particular “Criticism Dance” can be a challenge. Here are some general truths about the critical partner…
In relationships of all kinds, the conflict of independence-dependence can be one of the stickiest issues that people have to deal with. Since we’re all so different, each of us has a greater or lesser desire for freedom and independence and that’s where the “rub” …
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Earlier this month, we wrote about “What to Do When You Think Your Partner is a Bully”… And since that sparked more discussion, we wanted to share some of those ideas with you. Usually we think of a bully as using aggression to get what …
Do you have to work on a relationship to make it a good one and keep it that way? Here’s a great question someone asked awhile ago on this topic that we thought was worth chewing on a bit… “You hear many people say that …
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When we asked this question awhile ago in a survey… “What’s the biggest question you have about how to create more love, passion and connection in your relationship and your life?” Many wanted to know what to do about their relationship getting stale and growing …
Most people see compromise as a good thing but what if the act of compromising kills love and passion instead? While compromising may be what happens naturally when there’s conflict, it’s how you both see the compromise that decides whether you get closer or pull …
