Relationship Advice

It’s Otto writing and I have a question for you… It’s a question that’s really important (especially in these crazy times we’re living in right now…) The question is… What are you trying to control in your life? Even if you aren’t aware of it, […]

If you’re like me, trying to control almost anything in my life right now seems pretty futile. Whether it’s the virus as it moves across the world, our social life, our work situation, the people we live with or even our emotions… The strategies we

Today we’re talking about choices and in particular, one that might be the most important choice you make. It’s a choice we’re all making hundreds, if not thousands of times a day. But most of the time we’re not even aware that we’re making it

Legendary UCLA College Basketball Coach and student of life, John Wooden, once said, “Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today” which is perfect advice if you’re living with regret. Right off the top of my head, I can think of about a half-a-dozen

When you want more from your relationship and your partner, it can be very frustrating to say the least. When your partner isn’t giving you what you want or isn’t acting the way you think he or she should act… There is irritation, anxiety and

Years ago, when Susie’s car was new, she merged into traffic on a busy interstate highway and almost ran another car off the road because she wasn’t aware of the car’s blind spot. She learned pretty quickly where the blind spot was and that she

We all have love blind spots that keep us from having more of the love and the life that we want. It’s always what we can’t see that’s going on underneath the surface in our lives… That we’re creating, that we’re thinking, that we’re believing…

One of the tricks to keeping hope alive and staying open to possibilities when life has treated you unfairly is to know that in almost every situation it’s not personal. No matter how difficult, how upsetting, how much you wish things were different… In almost

Resentments are born from large or small events when we feel like we’ve been treated unfairly. Someone slights us or does something so grossly mean that we feel blindsided–and we hold onto that hurt, sometimes for years. There seem to be two kinds of resentments:

To start spring off right, we’ve written a series of articles called… “5 Clues You’re Ready for a Relationship Reboot” Here are Relationship Reboot Clues #4 and #5… (If you missed it, here’s Clue #1) Ready for a Relationship Reboot: Clue #4 You’re willing to