Relationship Advice

To a lot of people it might seem like the land of magic and fairy tales to suggest that everyone’s lives and their relationships would be so much better if they just did one thing. And that is… Just be love. If you want to […]

When her alarm rang at 6:30, Cassey groaned and didn’t want to get up. What in the world was going on? After all, she wasn’t 16 anymore and wasn’t arguing with her mom about how much time she had before she had to get up

As the summer was coming to an end, Karen was struggling with change and loss in so many areas of her life. She had decided to not accept any long-term substitute teaching positions because of COVID this fall even though she’d had a fall job

Hi, it’s Otto writing today and… One of the things that I hate most in the world is “getting dirty.” No, I’m not talking about THAT kind of dirty. I like that too but I’m talking about getting physically dirty… Dirty as in working in

One of the biggest questions for the two of us right now during this Covid epidemic, and maybe for you as well, is… How much “normal” activity do we engage in and what do we avoid for fear of getting the virus? Are the reservations

Chuck and Janice argued all the time and often over small things like turning off the lights or when to run the dishwasher. They were both miserable but they didn’t know how to stop fighting and start loving again. The truth is that it didn’t

I’m sad to say, I can’t even relate to the pain, fear and worry that most people of color have had to deal with in my lifetime. I grew up in a white, middle class family and neighborhood where we had steaks on the grill

No one should ever have to die like George Floyd did last week. After looking at the video countless times of Floyd there on the asphalt pavement with that Minneapolis Police officer’s knee on his neck… There’re no two ways about it. He was murdered.

If you’re one of those people who thinks relationships are HARD WORK…. And creating the love you want is REALLY HARD WORK… My answer is… Compared to what? A few weeks ago I had a coaching client tell me that (for her) it was really