It’s been a year since Connie’s husband Todd had ended an emotional affair with a co-worker but she hadn’t been able to let go of the pain and betrayal. She knew she needed to get her suspicions in check every time he went to work […]
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Worrying is one of those things that all of us do. We find things to worry about in our relationships, lives and even at work and about our finances and yet… It’s NOT helpful… We sit and we stew and mull things over and agonize
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Claudia was livid. When she discovered her husband hadn’t paid some bills that he said he’d paid, she was so angry she could spit nails. This wasn’t the first time this had happened during their years together and she worried that it wouldn’t be the
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Is your gut instinct always right in relationships? If it’s truly your “gut” speaking, then it’s worth paying attention to. But how do you know the difference between when your gut instinct is trying to get your attention–and when it’s your fear of the past
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“I’m still resentful that Don was such a workaholic for so many years, especially when the kids were little!” Carla told us bluntly during one of our coaching conversations with her. Among other things, Carla had been telling us that her 35 year marriage was
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I couldn’t help overhearing the conversation in the table next to mine when the man very sharply said to his wife, “Stop it. Just stop it” as she asked him questions about the food items on the menu. The restaurant where I was when the
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We all struggle with relationship challenges from time to time that can certainly complicate our lives. Here are 3 common relationship problems, along with ways from our latest book BIG FAT LOVE; The Book of Possibilities for creating more love, less stress and happier lives.
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Cliff was fed up, disappointed, hurt and felt like a fool for trusting too much once again… And his father was the reason. After years of rehashing the same argument about Cliff going into the ministry instead of pursuing a career in what he loved–music…
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The question of how to truly forgive is usually where someone lands who has been deeply hurt but wants to repair the relationship and move on–but doesn’t know how. Forgiveness is tricky because of all the emotions swirling around that can range from hurt, anger,
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Whether you’re married or have been in a love relationship, at one time or another, you’ve probably experienced disconnection… As if a wall had sprung up between the two of you. The relationship wall could’ve resulted from a major disagreement, an argument that was never
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