We all love the “newness” of a relationship when you’re mesmerized by each other and you crave each others’ company. But what happens when that fades away and you find that you have trouble even talking with one another and unwittingly start playing a very …
When relationship newness wears off, is the Gotcha game inevitable? Read More »
***QUESTION FROM A READER: “I have a question. I have read many articles about emotional affairs. The emphasis is always on how wrong they are, how destructive of marriage, and of course I can’t help but agree with that. But the advice is always to …
Emotional Affair–What about the “other” person in the triangle? Read More »
What we know for sure is that disagreement is normal and natural within a relationship or marriage. It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and NOT what you want to do–but there it is and you have to deal with it. HOW you deal with disagreement and …
Whether it’s Pinocchio whose extending nose gave away his lies or the “lying eyes” of the lover in a popular Eagle’s song, it seems we are often on the lookout for signs of betrayal from those we love. In fables and songs, lies are just …
What we know for sure is that disagreement is normal and natural within a relationship or marriage. It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and NOT what you want to do–but there it is and you have to deal with it. HOW you deal with disagreements and …
Here are a couple of relationship questions that are worth thinking about… How good are you at following through with what you say you’ll do, especially with your loved ones? What do you value and what are your true commitments in your life? Because our …
Today, we’re talking about Valentine’s day and you’ve got an important choice to make about it… Are you going to make it “no big deal” or are you going to use it to your FULL ADVANTAGE to restart the spark or even to deepen the …
Will your Valentine’s Day be dull or upsetting or fun and connecting? Read More »
If you want things to change in your relationships and life–and make love last, you can half-heartedly wish they would change and keep talking about what’s wrong… Or you can get gutsy and actually make the changes you want in your life. We know we …
This was an embarrassing love moment for sure…and we’re glad our love survived it… There are 3 videos on this web page about building trust in a relationship that are really worth watching and… If you haven’t seen it–THE third video on this page is …
How to Make Your Love Stronger After an Ugly Moment Read More »
Divorce is probably one of the most difficult decisions that many people face in their lives. Here’s one woman’s struggle around this issue… “My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years. We have been married for 14 years. Through most …
