In this video, I interview one of our beloved teachers, Dicken Bettinger, for our “Big Love Relationship Series” where we talk about… — The Only Thing That Gets in the Way of Love — How to get Over Upsets Quickly — The Inside Out View […]
An Interview with Dicken Bettinger — The Only Thing That Gets In The Way of Love Read More »
As the summer was coming to an end, Karen was struggling with change and loss in so many areas of her life. She had decided to not accept any long-term substitute teaching positions because of COVID this fall even though she’d had a fall job
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Hi, it’s Otto writing today and… One of the things that I hate most in the world is “getting dirty.” No, I’m not talking about THAT kind of dirty. I like that too but I’m talking about getting physically dirty… Dirty as in working in
What is Your “Getting Dirty?” Read More »
One of the biggest questions for the two of us right now during this Covid epidemic, and maybe for you as well, is… How much “normal” activity do we engage in and what do we avoid for fear of getting the virus? Are the reservations
Is Fear Driving the Bus–or is it Common Sense? Read More »
Chuck and Janice argued all the time and often over small things like turning off the lights or when to run the dishwasher. They were both miserable but they didn’t know how to stop fighting and start loving again. The truth is that it didn’t
A Fixed Mindset or Freedom? Your Choice… Read More »
I’m sad to say, I can’t even relate to the pain, fear and worry that most people of color have had to deal with in my lifetime. I grew up in a white, middle class family and neighborhood where we had steaks on the grill
Dealing with Fear, Pain and Worry… Read More »
No one should ever have to die like George Floyd did last week. After looking at the video countless times of Floyd there on the asphalt pavement with that Minneapolis Police officer’s knee on his neck… There’re no two ways about it. He was murdered.
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If you’re one of those people who thinks relationships are HARD WORK…. And creating the love you want is REALLY HARD WORK… My answer is… Compared to what? A few weeks ago I had a coaching client tell me that (for her) it was really
The Truth VS Hard Work in Love and Life Read More »
Two or three work lifetimes ago, I was forced to go through hell for five straight days and there was nothing I could do about it. It wasn’t actual hell but it was a very strange and annoying period of time that mirrors exactly how
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It’s Otto writing today and sometimes I’ll hear a song lyric, read a line in a book or hear something totally random on a TV show or on the Internet and it strikes me a little bit deeper than it ordinarily might. This happened to
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