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There’s a dance that often goes on in relationships that is REALLY destructive to the love that exists between two people if you don’t get wise to it. We’re talking about a “one-up/one down” relationship drama or an Inferiority/Superiority dance. Here’s an example of how […]

One of biggest questions you can have in a committed relationship is… “How can I get my partner to be more open with me?” Here’s what we’ve learned… It’s a common challenge when one person thinks the other isn’t showing up emotionally as much as

If you’ve ever found yourself getting triggered by someone repeatedly and it ends up in the same fight that never gets resolved… Or maybe you’re the one triggering your partner and you don’t know how to stop… It might be called pushing each other’s buttons–and

If you’re reading this, we’re guessing that you’re interested in having more love, intimacy and connection in a relationship that you may feel is lacking in some way. You may have bought into the idea of just loving your partner more and “being an invitation”

Are you making this classic mistake in your relationship? Some people ignore the “danger signs” in their relationship for far too long. That’s exactly what Hal did… In fact he did it for 10 years. Now he’s asking us for help–but is it too late?

Awhile ago, we asked the people who get our newsletter to tell us about the dumb relationship questions they’ve been asked or had been asked of them that killed passion and love–and boy were their answers eye-opening. In many cases, these dumb questions or statements

Finding yourself in a codependent relationship, whether it’s your first one or a repeating pattern, can certainly be filled with stress, confusion, uncertainties, regrets, and even shame. When you finally see that you’re in one, you usually realize that you want to get out of

Have you ever witnessed an interaction between two people that just blew you out of the water? We did on a return trip from a fabulous Florida vacation and the interaction we saw was so good, so powerful and such a great example of how

When you or your partner is stonewalling, what’s REALLY going on and how do you stop it from ruining your relationship? Here’s a question about stonewalling we got awhile ago… “If your partner isn’t into self-help (books, videos, articles) and stonewalls me every time I

Recently I had a burst of insight… I was in the middle of one of my “I-know-what’s-right-for-Otto” thoughts as he was telling me a plan he was hatching… And just as quickly, another thought came rushing in… “Oh, wait a minute! Otto’s idea may be