Sometimes problem solving (whether big or little ones) can be difficult and cause disagreements, especially when you have one idea about what’s “right” to do and your partner or another person has another idea. In this last year, the two of us have had some important insights […]
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If you never imagined that a goose could teach you about making your relationships better, think again. Here’s a bazaar true story that Susie’s daughter told her about a co-worker’s experience. Ann was training for a marathon, running on a bike path in a major
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Last weekend my sister and I went with our two daughters on a spa trip to Chicago. Along with enjoying two fabulous spas, I had a huge aha and uncovered a possibility for love that I hadn’t seen before. Innocently, my sister tucked in a
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One thing I’ve learned about love by being with Susie is… This moment is all we’ve ever got. We are never promised another moment. EVER. When we first got together, one of the things that we had to tackle right from the start was the
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Awhile ago we watched the 2010 remake of the movie “Death at a Funeral” and laughed harder than we’ve laughed in a long time. We recognize that it didn’t get very good reviews but we loved it! In the middle of all the silly, outlandish
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There’s a dance that often goes on in relationships that is REALLY destructive to the love that exists between two people if you don’t get wise to it. We’re talking about a “one-up/one down” relationship drama or an Inferiority/Superiority dance. Here’s an example of how
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When you’re drowning in guilt, there doesn’t seem to be any right answer for how to move forward. At least that’s what Jane (not her real name) thought when she was struggling about whether to tell her boyfriend of 7 years about her secret desire
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If you’ve ever found yourself getting triggered by someone repeatedly and it ends up in the same fight that never gets resolved… Or maybe you’re the one triggering your partner and you don’t know how to stop… It might be called pushing each other’s buttons–and
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I’ve been a champion liar my whole life and the person I’ve lied the most to has been ME. If you know me at all, you might think of me as someone who is full of integrity and honesty. The truth is I’ve lied to
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If you’re reading this, we’re guessing that you’re interested in having more love, intimacy and connection in a relationship that you may feel is lacking in some way. You may have bought into the idea of just loving your partner more and “being an invitation”
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