Pushing buttons can keep a relationship in upset and misunderstanding. Here’s a way to get out of that destructive pattern and to more loving…
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Have you ever gotten so caught up in your thinking, imagining the worst about your partner or a situation, that you spin off in all sorts of directions that pull you away from solving relationship problems? If so, guess what? You’re normal. You see, it’s
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Are most people making up problems where there aren’t any? Our article “Should You Trust Your Gut Instincts” sparked a lot of interest because whether to trust intuition or not is a big issue for a lot of people. One woman wrote to tell us
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Nothing can be more irritating than when your partner won’t listen to you and starts trying to “fix” you in the process–and you want him or her to change. **Question from a reader… “My fiance has been through personal development work and so understands the
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Okay, we’ve all said the “wrong” thing with certain people. If you’re like us, at the time you found out it was the wrong thing… Either because of their reaction or because you were later told it was wrong to say what you did… You
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Sally dissolved in tears when Tom, her husband of 10 years, stormed out after a heated discussion about their finances. They had a modest amount in their savings account and Sally wanted to spend it on a cruise this summer because she felt frustrated, discouraged
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If you’re struggling to stop reliving the past because you know it’s preventing the love and connection you want, here are 3 ways…
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As Crystal screamed at her current boyfriend, saying things she didn’t really mean… She knew she needed help working through what she called her “abandonment” issues. Her father had left her mother and her when she was six years old and she had healed the
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Hi, it’s Susie, writing today and I’ll raise my hand. I feel insecure at times and I’ll bet you do too! But what if insecurity wasn’t as big of a problem as we think? I remember when Otto and I were first together and I
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Gail cringed as she escaped into the kitchen when she gave a wrong answer during a trivia game she and her husband were playing with another couple one Saturday night. She felt stupid, always coming in last during these games and she thought she was
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