It was a very simple question Geri kept asking herself about her 13 year marriage… “Are we going to make it?” There can be a thousand answers about what “make it” means to Geri… But if Geri wants to create something special in her marriage […]
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Last week, after finishing cutting my hair, my barber handed my eye glasses back to me and I was embarrassed by what happened next. I told him this… “These are the WRONG glasses. THESE aren’t mine. Mine don’t have this red stripe on the sides
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“I don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like but it sure isn’t THIS!” “Jennifer” (not her real name and her story used with permission) shared this with us in one of her coaching sessions. When she did, we just had to blow the whistle
If You Don’t Have a Healthy Relationship, What’s Next? Read More »
Insecurity or low self-esteem can play havoc in a relationship but it doesn’t have to. Here’s how to stop feeling insecure (hint: it’s only your thinking) and start living your life from love not fear. Watch our video we did several years ago and find
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Whether you’ve been with someone for many years or it’s been a relatively short amount of time… Doubts can certainly creep in that churn up feelings of insecurity about your future together. Little (or big) red flags can wildly signal “danger.” And these feelings can
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One of the things that seems to cause us the most trouble in life is the fact that we get blinded by our biases. We have ways of seeing the world, ways of seeing other people and ways of seeing situations that cloud our thinking
How to Tell if Your Biases are Getting in The Way of Love… Read More »
Connie dreaded coming home from work because she knew what she’d be facing…. Clothes strewn all over the living room, a kitchen counter full of “stuff,” a sink full of dirty dishes, overflowing garbage and recycling bins and hungry dogs that needed to be fed.
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Anytime resentments are present, you have a story about them. You have a story about what happened and how you were wronged… What you would’ve liked to have happened instead of what did happen… What SHOULD have happened and what shouldn’t have happened. You keep
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Hiding the truth from ourselves and others doesn’t have to sabotage your relationships. Here’s a better way to more love…
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For most of us except for a few outliers who are stimulated by them… Arguments are uncomfortable and we’d rather not have them. But the truth is that we’re all different… And we disagree… We end up arguing for our point of view because we
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