Light Her Up

Breakthrough Relationship Secrets For Men Revealed:

How To Light Up Your Woman, Make Her Happy and Get All the Love, Appreciation, Affection and Sex You Want (or Can Handle) From Her…

Dear Friend,

My name is Otto Collins and if you’re like most men I talk to, your relationship or marriage isn’t anything close to what you’d like it to be.

manshameYou’re frustrated, confused, maybe even angry and not exactly sure what you should do next to try to make your woman happy and get her to want to give you the love, affection, attention and yes–even sex you want from her.

I want to help you change all that.

I want to help you blow past any problems, challenges or frustrations you might be having with your woman and help you create exactly the kind of love and relationship you want.


But in order to do that, I’d like to ask you a few questions…

  • Are you wanting to make your woman happy and are frustrated because what you’re doing isn’t working and only seems to be making her more distant, upset or shut off from you?
  • Do you wish you could get your woman to smile more to let you know she enjoys being with you?
  • Do you wish you could get her to pay more attention to you, give you more affection and make you feel more important?
  • Do the two of you have trust issues where one or both of you doesn’t fully trust the other?
  • Would you like her to talk to you in more loving ways–like she really cares about you and that you’re someone she really loves?
  • Would you like to know what she’s thinking and feeling more of the time?
  • Do you wish the two of you could communicate in ways that are more loving and bring the two of you closer together?
  • Are you frustrated because of her constant nagging?
  • Do you wish that you both could forget the past and stop bringing up mistakes that just cause more trouble?
  • Do you want her to give you more hugs or physical affection whenever you’re together or out in public for no apparent reason other then she wants to let you know how much she cares about you and appreciates you?
  • Would you like to have more sex with her without having to ask for it over and over or feel like you need to convince her to do it with you?
  • Would you like her to initiate sex and lovemaking more often with you?

If you said YES to any of the above questions, then you are not alone…

ProblemsThe sad fact for most men in relationships today is that they feel like the life, passion and excitement has been totally sucked out of their relationship or marriage.

If you’re like many men, you feel like you just can’t win when it comes to your woman and your relationship.

It may be difficult for the two of you to talk anymore without the conversation either getting tense or one or both of you shutting down to try to keep the peace.

What’s worse is…

You’re not feeling her love like you want, you don’t feel appreciated, and you certainly aren’t getting as much passion and sex from her as you’d like.

It didn’t use to be this way, but for some reason, it is now.

Something needs to change.

But what and how?

How You Can Learn From My Mistakes About What To Do (And What Not To Do) To Make Your Woman Happy…

I’ve got a confession to make…Even though today I’m a highly successful Relationship Coach and now have the kind of marriage I’ve always hoped for and dreamed about with my wife, Susie–believe me when I say that I’ve make mistake after mistake in my relationship.

In fact, some of these mistakes could have very easily destroyed my marriage but they didn’t and here’s why…

I’ve been married twice. The first time lasted 15 years and as of this moment, I’ve been happily married to my current wife Susie for almost that long.

What I’ve discovered is that until I started learning from my mistakes, marriage #2 was headed for the same fate as my first one.

I found that it wasn’t long after the “honeymoon phase” of our relationship ended that I started repeating the same mistakes in my second marriage that helped cause my first marriage to end.

I started taking my wife for granted. I stopped communicating and talking to her with love. I was becoming harsh and critical of her. I started making her wrong and me right all of the time and I stopped treating her like the most special person on the earth.

Call it blind luck, fate, divine intervention or anything you like, but one day I got an insight that changed my relationship and life for the better forever …

fireworks2smBecause I already had one marriage that went bust, I figured out that love alone wasn’t going to be enough to make me want to be with Susie forever and keep our marriage hot, fresh, sexy and alive over the long haul.

In order to do what I could to make sure this passion and our relationship could stand the test of time…

I studied the relationships of couples who had not only created what I wanted, but those who had been able to sustain their close, connected, passionate relationship a lot longer than the average couple.

In fact, with what I was learning, things were going so well in our marriage that other people started noticing and asked us to help them create better relationships too.

Fast-Forward several years later and not only are Susie and I highly successful relationship coaches and published authors–helping thousands of people create what we have–but I feel like the most loved man in the world and here’s why…

Not only do the two of us still love each other deeply and our communication is still good, but also after all these years, the sex is still incredible and I get “lucky” almost every single day. Sometimes twice a day.

Don’t think that my marriage has been completely problem free.

It hasn’t.

But what I can tell you is that what we have now is so far beyond my wildest dreams that it isn’t even funny.

You can have this too.

All you have to do is learn how to light up your woman and I’m here to help you with this.

Why Most Men’s Relationships Start Out So Well and End Up Fizzling Out Over Time…

I hate to say it but one of the biggest reasons why most intimate relationships start out so well but almost always seem to fade out over time is because in this society, we all think it’s normal for passion, love and incredible sex between two people to fade away and die.

If your relationship doesn’t have as much life and passion as you would like, I want you to know that it’s simply not your fault.

It’s so hard to go against the programming of an entire culture that you have bought into at an unconscious level.

If you doubt what I’m saying, consider this question for a moment…

If you were to think about any of your models for the relationships you’ve had up until this point in your life (your parents or caregivers), did any of them suggest to you by words or by example that it was normal for passion and desire to last a long time–like the whole time you are together?

Of course not.

Most people think that whether you chose to marry or not, that there’s a “honeymoon period” that happens in relationships and after that initial attraction for each other, it’s natural for passion, love and sexual desire to fade.

You don’t usually see too many couples holding hands and showing affection for one another in public after this initial honeymoon period. It’s almost like, in this society, we believe that love, passion and sexual desire are just for young people or a couple in a new relationship. .

When I started thinking about this idea several years ago, I made a conscious decision that I wanted to have my relationship stay filled with passion, sexual energy and desire for as long as we were together.

Notice I didn’t say I was going to go along with what our culture says is normal. I said I made a decision to have a high amount of sex and passion in my relationship and that’s what I’ve done.

I’ve made the decision to live my life based on the idea that love, passion and great sex never has to fade away and I hope you decide to go against the grain too.

As you can tell, I’m really passionate about this idea of keeping passion alive forever. That’s why I spend so much time teaching other people how to create more of it in their relationships and lives too.

If You’re a Man Who Wants More Love, Appreciation and Sex From Your Woman… Here’s The Most Important Thing I Could Ever Teach You…

I call it the “48 Hour Sex Formula” and it’s not about fancy tricks or manipulation.

It is, however, the absolute best strategy you could ever learn for making your woman so happy that she willingly gives you all the love, appreciation and yes–all the sex you could ever want.

The “48 Hour Sex Formula” is based on understanding one of the biggest biological differences between men and women and how the different sexes approach relationships.

You may not know this, but research has been done and it has been proven in several major studies that, biologically, it takes more time for a woman to relax, let go of her worries, stress and even memories in order to have sex than it does for us men.

That’s why many sex therapists tell us that for women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours preceding intercourse, while, for men, it’s what happens in the three minutes before entry.

You’ve probably seen this in your own relationship.

Something happens to turn you on sexually and you’re ready for action.

For your woman, it’s much different. It’s a much slower and steady process. It simply takes longer for her to get sexually aroused.

This is sort of like boiling a pan of water. Sexually, men get to that boiling point right away. Women take a little while to get all steamed up.

Here’s why this is so important…

If you don’t give your woman the attention that she wants from you in the 24 to 48 hours (or more) before you want to make love…

If you don’t make her feel like the most special woman in the world to you…

If you don’t communicate and allow yourself to be both powerful AND vulnerable with her…

And, if you don’t make her feel listened to, heard and seen…

Then, good luck, because getting her “in the mood more often” is probably not going to happen. If she does agree to lovemaking, she’ll very often be doing it just to try to please you and not because she’s turned on.

The bottom line is this…Most women want to make love or have sex AFTER they feel truly connected to you and NOT before.

Men, interestingly enough get to “connection” with women through lovemaking or sex.

This is amazing to finally know that men and women BOTH want the same thing–connection.

The challenge, of course, is that the path to getting there tends to be completely opposite for each sex.

So, what do you have to do to get her in the mood more often?

Follow the “48 Hour Sex Formula”

This means that your goal should be to help her feel connected to you long BEFORE you invite her to make love or ask for a night of passion (or even request a quickie).

You have to learn how to communicate with your woman in order to promote a deep soul level connection that she can feel. You also have to make her feel honored and truly special ALL of the time.

Before you start that internal conversation that says, “That’s easy for you, Otto, but it would never happen for me in my relationship,” consider this…

I’m not the best looking guy in the world and I could stand to lose a few pounds. But, here’s the thing…Most of the time I treat my woman like an absolute goddess whom I care very deeply for, while at the same time, I stay true to myself and my masculinity.

I also talk to her ALL of the time AND I truly listen to her too (not just when I want to have sex). She often tells me “how lucky” she is to have me. It’s not ME as much as it is what I give to her, how I make her feel and how I help bring out that radiant gift that was inside of her all along.

It is my firm belief that if you continually love your woman and truly make her feel special in the 24 to 48 hours before you want to have sex with her, then your chances for a great night of erotic fun are dramatically increased.

Are You Ready To Do Something That Will Help You Light Up Your Woman and Get The Love and Sex You Want From Her?

If you said yes, then you’re going to want to download a copy of my brand new “Light Her Up” ebook right now…

What is “Light Her Up” Exactly and What Comes With It?

Light Her Up is the only information of its kind that is from a man to a man and shows you exactly what you need to do in order to light up your woman and get the love and sex you really want from her…

When you get Light Her Up, you’ll be getting an instantly downloadable ebook that’s about 140 pages AND if you’re one of those people who prefers to listen to audios instead of read books, we’re also going to include audios of me reading the book at the same low price.

Here’s what you get in the program…

 The Light Her Up ebook instantly downloadable


Instant access to 5 audio recordings of Otto reading the book

This means, whether you prefer to read or listen to information, we’re giving you BOTH.

When You Download Your Copy of Light Her Up, Here’s a Partial List of What You’ll Learn…

  • The biggest difference between the men who light up their women and the ones who don’t.
  • What to do when you think what you want with your woman is impossible or unreachable.
  • A 4-word phrase most men say to their woman that is an instant turn off and what words you should say that lights her up instead.
  • The most important thing you should do if you’re not satisfied with your love life with your woman.
  • The right way and the wrong way to use humor with your woman. (Get the order of these two reversed and life with her won’t be very pleasant)
  • What women want more than anything else from their man that (if they get it) makes them kinder, more loving, more radiant and more sexually available.
  • How ANY man can find out how to make his woman feel special (page 20).
  • How to get your woman in the mood for love, passion and hot sex as often as you want.(and even come on to you more often).
  • What your woman wants from you far more than sex, money, social status or a beautiful home to live in.
  • The master key to keeping your relationship or marriage red hot (even after many years of being together).
  • What to do if you are turned on by certain other women who are not yours.
  • How to use the power of curiosity to make conversations easier and arguments and conflicts dissolve quicker.
  • When it comes to sex with their woman, how most men set themselves up to play a game they simply cannot win and what to do instead (page 38).
  • What to be on the lookout for that will expand your pleasure with your woman both in and out of the bedroom.
  • One thing you MUST learn how to do if you want to keep a woman in love with you, excited about you and wanting you over the long haul.
  • How spending time alone everyday can actually help you have more and stronger erections –and no, I’m not talking about masturbation here.
  • An unexpected personal trait that is critical to have for a man who wants to create a more passionate and alive relationship with a woman (page 45).
  • How a man can set healthy boundaries with a woman–even one he wants to please.
  • An instantaneous mind shift ANY man can quickly and easily make that makes your woman seem sexier and radiant (page 53).
  • The mistake most men make when relationship challenges pop up and how to make sure simple problems don’t turn into major conflicts (page 58).
  • What you can do to make your woman feel loved and appreciated even when she’s nowhere around (page 60).
  • The thing most most men hide about themselves that most women find incredibly sexy when they reveal this.
  • How much is too much when it comes to looking at other beautiful women (page 66).
  • A sick but often used strategy men should eliminate if they want to get their emotional and relationship needs met.
  • 5 recommendations for embracing and developing your masculinity in ways your woman will find sexy.
  • Secrets and strategies for creating high arousal and stronger erections.
  • Details about the ONLY 2 things that ever cause sexual performance challenges and what to do if these issues are present for you.
  • What drives women craziest and makes them angrier than almost anything else you could ever do and how to stop making this king-sized mistake.
  • How to touch your woman that wakes her desire for you.
  • How to satisfy your woman’s desire for romance without feeling like a wimp or less than a real man in order to please her.
  • The top 10 communication mistakes most men make when talking to their partners and how to communication in ways that open her instead of close her down.
  • How to navigate differences in sexual desire levels.
  • A truly devastating game men play in a relationship (often without even knowing it) that actually repels your woman unconsciously and drives her away.
  • And much more… How To Tell If Light Her Up Is For You…

If there is any part of you that wants more from your woman than you are currently getting, then Light Her Up is for you.

If you are frustrated with any aspect of your relationship or marriage and aren’t sure how to make your woman happy anymore–then Light Her Up is for you.

If you’re a man who hasn’t given up on making his relationship or marriage the best that it can be, then this is for you.

If you want more sex than you’re getting now from your woman, then this is certainly for you.

If you’re a man who’s hungry for more from his woman, the Light Her Up ebook package is definitely for you.

If you or your partner have any challenges at all in communicating your thoughts, feelings or emotions to each other, then this program is for you.

If you are willing to invest a little bit of time, effort and energy into learning some new skills ideas and techniques that will dramatically improve the quality of your communication and instantly create breakthroughs in your relationship or marriage — then this program is for you.

If you have even an ounce of desire to make your woman truly happy and get the love and sex you want in the process, I sincerely believe this program can change your relationship or marriage as well as your life.

On the other hand, if you have given up on your partner and this relationship and aren’t willing to put any more effort into working to create something better…


You are unwilling to step up, put yourself on the line and try one more time to show yourself and her that you can change and create something better, then you should probably pass on this info and not bother downloading it.

This program is for men who want more love and a better relationship and are willing to try some new ideas and strategies in their relationship or marriage and commit to doing something about it.

What Makes The Light Her Up Ebook So Different?

First of all, most relationship help, advice and info that’s available either offline or online is usually for women or couples–Not Men.

This program is FOR MEN and the unique problems, issues and challenges that we men face in our relationships with women.

What’s interesting is that almost ALL relationship or marriage advice info that is widely availbable for men is usually about dating, pick up lines or seduction of one kind or another.

Not this program.

This Light Her Up program is NOT about dating, seduction or picking up women.

This is the first book and program of its kind that is specifically FOR MEN interested in how to make a committed relationship or marriage work at a whole new level–one that’s fillied with love, passion, intimacy and lots of sex. .

Most of the feedback I’ve gotten about the book from advance readers suggests that what I cover in the book isn’t necessarily “rocket science” or all that difficult, but the ideas and info in the book is what ALL women want from their men (if they would only give it to them).

Light Her Up shows men, like you, not only what to do to make your woman happy but with what you’re going to learn how to do–she’s going to feel so loved by you and so connected to you, she will gladly want to have sex with you 2, 3, 5 or 10 times as much as she does now.

Let’s wrap this up…

If you’ve read this far, then that tells me that you’re serious about learning what it takes to light up your woman and make her truly happy.

It also tells me that you want more from your woman than you’re currently getting and you want to learn how to get it.

All you have to do is say “yes” to yourself, your woman and your relationship and I’ll handle the rest.

Imagine getting the love, passion, and sex you want from her without guilt, arguing or manipulation.

Imagine how great it will be to be able to light her up so much that she smiles at you more, gives you hugs, kisses and affection, without you even asking for it.

Imagine having a relationship with your woman where she was so excited to be with you that SHE initiated sex and lovemaking more of the time.

That’s not only what’s going to be possible for you by getting this information, but it will be normal for the two of you to to feel more spark for each other and a deeper attraction (even if you’ve been together for years).

All you have to do is download this Light Her Up book and audio program and the wheels will already be in motion to create exactly what you want with your woman.

I guarantee it.

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My goal for you is to help you create the love and relationships you really want with your woman. If for any reason, you aren’t completely satisfied with your purchase, just let us know within 30 days and we’ll refund 100% of your purchase price. Otto Collins

If you’re the kind of man I think you are who’s ready to “step up” and do what it takes to light up your woman and get the love, appreciation and sex you want–then don’t wait another moment.

Just give this information a try and notice how your woman starts responding differently to you. When you use this information in the way I’ve outlined, she’ll be so attracted to you and turned on by you that you’ll be wondering where her love and passion for you has been hiding all along.

If you don’t take action right now, nothing will change. You have to take action. You have to say yes to you and the relationship with your woman that you want.

Get this Light Her Up book and audio package right now. The best thing you can possibly do for yourself and your relationship.

As always I wish you all the best.

Your friend,

Otto Collins

P.S. Remember, this Light Her Up package is not available in stores anywhere. It’s only available as a downloadable package here on our web site.

Don’t put it off. Order now and you’ll be taking that all important first step toward getting what YOU really want with your woman.

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Reviews Of Light Her Up…

“Every Woman I’ve Ever Coached Probably wished their dates or husbands had read this book.”

Light Her Up delivers on its promise. I nodded my head in agreement on nearly every page, and it probably contains a year’s worth of seminars and workshops condensed into a friendly, engaging, and readable manual for making your woman happy and getting the love and sex you want. I am certain every woman I’ve coached wished their dates or husbands had read this book. If there were a polite way for a woman to say, “Hey, read this book and maybe it will explain why you’re getting the reactions you do,” they would say it in a heartbeat.

Michael Joseph
Dating and Relationship Coach


“Every easy-to-understand tips on how anyone can improve their relationship.”

Otto Collins does it again!

His new book Light Her Up is filled with all of those things that should be common sense, but are frequently overlooked in relationships.

Otto’s straightforward approach provides easy-to-understand tips on how anyone can improve their relationship. Even if you feel your relationship is perfect already, reading this book surely will bring things to light that you may have been overlooking. Light Her Up definitely is written for the ordinary guy, and it should be a “must read” for women too.

Everyone will improve their relationships — marriage, friends, or family — by reading this book and putting the tips into play. It is easy to see why Susie and Otto have a great relationship, and I am glad they choose to share their not-so-secret secrets with us.
Dave Pickenpaugh


“Spells Out What it Means To Be Man’s Man Who Can Relate To a Woman With The Kind Of Intimacy That a Woman Craves”

Solid stuff! Otto goes beyond the tricks and gimmicks and spells out the core of what it means to be man’s man who can relate to a woman with the kind of intimacy that a woman craves and yet maintain his sense of self and personal power. Spend one day with each chapter, let it soak in and watch your relationship (and life) be transformed – without resorting to tricks, gimmicks or even skill learning!

Dr. Bob Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

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“Practical Help For Anyone Who Has a Desire To Improve Their Relationship or Recapture The Magic…”

We are excited about some of Otto and Susie’s creative ideas to enhance or rekindle the spark in a relationship or marriage. Otto and Susie are experts on the subject of loving relationships. Their ideas are practical help for anyone who has a desire to improve their relationship or recapture the magic. They are experienced, compassionate, and caring coaches, who have a wealth of worthwhile information to help us all improve our most important relationships.”

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“Your information and tools provided in your tapes and books have been very valuable for me in transforming my relationship. Over the past few years I have read numerous relationship books to help me have a wonderful, passionate relationship. Nothing compares to your books.”

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“A quick note to share my gratitude for your sharing. I have a private practice where I use many modalities to assist people with improving the quality of their lives. Knowing I am unable to be a “master” at everything, I use your info’s and hand them out — they make such a difference! We discuss how the topic may be an area of improvement … and it also serves as a great reference.”

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“Susie and Otto, I can not begin to tell you how helpful and insightful your book has been in regards to my relationship with not only my spiritual partner, but with family and friends as well. I have looked for some time to find answers/suggestions to some of the issues in my life surrounding relationships. Most of the information seemed to be very judgmental and not some from a very loving author.

Your book and your newsletters have been a reminder that there is absolutely nothing that exists outside of love that would serve me. The answers to my questions kept pointing to love and the famous Neale Donald Walsch’s quote, “What would love do now”. Thank you for the opportunity to grow with you.”

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