If you want to stop your spouse, partner (or anyone else in your life) from getting defensive when you talk with them…

Ask different questions.

That’s right, you want to ask questions that pull them closer, make the two of you feel closer and more connected and create more love between the two of you.

So, how do you do this?

It’s both a mindset and a skill and this is what we’re talking about in this episode (episode 74) of our Love Made Easy podcast.

If you want more love and connection with the people in your life, you have to get better at two things:

Communicating in ways that eliminate defensiveness and communication that brings you closer.

If you want to learn some questions that eliminate defensiveness and create more love and connection, you’re definitely going to listen to this episode.

Blessings and Love to you,

Susie and Otto Collins